My boyfriend and I are both second timers. He has two teenage children who live with their mother and I have two young daughters who live with me.
They refuse to meet me, accepting their mothers story that I split up their parents marriage. This is false.
We have been together for nearly 3 years yet we are no nearer resolving this issue. He seems unable/reluctant to move them forward saying that they wont be forced and they are old enough (14 & 18) to make their won decisions.
This is making life so difficult. He is unhappy as they wont stay with us and therefore without their Dad and his relationship with my children cant develop because he feels guilty/miserable and means he has to continually choose between us.
Can anyone suggest any way forward or give me some hope.
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MumtoPandP · 20/01/2013 12:57
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