Hello everybody.
My boyfriend has today been given a date in February for a residency hearing regarding his son from a previous relationship. He and his ex have shared the upbringing of his son since they split with no legal intervention but now she has decided to apply to court for something formal to be in place. Her application states she is applying for "shared" residency but does not state what percentage time she is applying for, so we have no idea if she is planning on trying to get their son for the majority of the time and massively reduce the time my boyfriend spends with him.
We are not entitled to legal aid and cannot really afford a solicitor. He is planning on getting advice from a solicitor and then representing himself in court. But neither of us have any idea what he should and shouldn't be doing/saying or asking for? Can we find out her intentions with regards to how much time she is applying for before he goes to court so he has time to prepare or is it all kept quiet until the court hearing?
Secondly, as he will have no solicitor with him am I allowed to attend court for moral and practical support? I wouldn't say anything of course, just be sat with him, maybe take notes and prompt him from his notes if he forgets anything - he is dyslexic so finds reading from notes in stressful situations very difficult, he just cannot read quickly and digest information to then relay to someone else, and he is petrified that without someone there to prompt or remind him he will not be able to use his notes effectively to cover all his points and therefore may do himself a disservice in some way.
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Famuly court, residency hearing - any tips?
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bearymerrychristmas · 16/12/2012 19:23
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