Hi All
After reading about PR for step parents on another thread I keep thinking about it.
Is there really any benefit? We have kids EW, Easter, 2 weeks in summer and boxing day to NYD. I often have kids when DH is not there and take them out and about with me - we take kids on holidays but then DH is with us then.
I have frequently taken kids to doctors and hospital (DSD has asthma and has needed to go on nebuliser and DH usually stays at home with other kids). Obviously DH is aware and mom is always aware as I phone on route to let her know and if she wanted to come then obviously I would expect it. When DSD has had surgery I have taken time off work so she can come home to ours to recuperate straight from hospital.
I sometimes get on with mom and sometimes less so. Either way she is happy enough for me to be involved on this level with kids and even when we have not been speaking (yes we still have moments of childishness on both parts) she has called to let us know when had to take DSS to A & E and I went to meet her.
I don't know how I would even go about mentioning to her that I would consider PR without it seeming that I wanted to over take her (I know this is not the meaning but how do you say to someone that you want PR of their kids?). But worried now that I am in the wrong for doing these things with out it - is it enough that mom and dad have given consent to act on their behalf? If I am wrong how do I tell them I shouldn't do it any more without sounding like I don't care about kids?
Am I just over thinking it because I have been reading threads on MN?
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sanityseeker75 · 10/12/2012 13:55
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