Okay, here goes - I do not like my DSS! There, I've said it. I've tried so hard not to admit it that it has almost strangled me! It has got to the stage that as soon as he returns home my mood immediately changes for the worse. I really try to be positive and treat him as I do my own but it makes no difference. This feeling is making me really depressed and i keep wishing that my DSs and I were on our own in our own home.I've been with DP for 8 yrs now, living together for 3 years. I have 2 DSs and DP has 1. DSS has resented me from the very beginning - he is an only child so used to having his own way etc. etc. He has always been very manipulative and used to be mean and spiteful to both my DSs in the early years (he is 5 years older than my oldest and 8 years older than my youngest) and I'm pretty certain that this is when my resentment started. He has always resented me but that is to be expected as a SP. It wasn't so bad when he only visited at weekends but for the last 2 years he has lived with us as he is closer to college - his course is almost finished and I am dreading having him hang around the house all day every day doing nothing. I feel as if he is invading my territory and just wish he'd live with his Mum. I hate myself for feeling like this. DP knows more or less how i feel, but not quite how bad - he is wonderful with my DS's and they love him dearly as do I but I feel that the only way I can rectify the situation is to leave..... has anyone else felt like this too??
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