I don't know what to do. My DSS behaviour at school has been an issue for quite some time. He's not the most placid child and often flies into rages and punches out at my DH. He has been excluded from school 4 times this year due to behaving like this towards his classmates. There was some post waiting when my DH and I got in from work. (we travel together) I picked it up and realised it was a letter from the school. He opened the letter out of my view and then was shuffling around with our post and said it was just bill from the wholesalers (he's self employed) we get these most days so he obv thought it was a good cover up. I asked him what it was to give him the chance to tell me. I knew that it was from the school and he was lying. He's currently in the garage so I went though our pile of comunal post and found the letter and read it. It says that due to a serious incident involving DSS that was discussed over the phone (again no mention to me) and due to the fact that he's already been excluded so many times he is now being put into part time education for the next 3 weeks starting school at 9 and finishing at 12! well for a start his mother works full-time and so does my husband and being self-employed and due to financial circumstances he can't possible take every afternoon off. An arrangment has obviously been made between my DH and his ex about all this and I have been told nothing. I don't know whether to confront him about reading the letter or not.I'm fuming about the fact that I am his wife and he has lied to be about it. Please advise!
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