Most people on here know what is going on between DP, me and SD.
Things seem to be going well between DP and SD - meaning SD has turned up for all three meetings - which i am pleased for DP's sake.
However, its our DD's first birthday in a little over two weeks. I have organised a little tea party for both immediate famillies. We hand delieverd invitations to our guests yesterday.
We went to see DP's dad and his wife and gave them theirs. FIL asked who had been invited so we sed aunties, uncles, cousins etc. He asked if SD would be attending. DP explained that court order says that she cannot come into contact with me and DD. FIL asked why this was so it was explained that SD finds it too distressing to see us. Both FIL and his wife appeared to understand and thanked us for the invite.
Tonight Father in Law called round and explanied that he was here to tell us that he and wife couldn't attend birthday party. He explanied that he and his wife find it unfair that she is not invited and we are excluding her. He has said that they would attend if SD was invited.
I am just astounded - i am angry and confused. All i said to Father in law was there is nothing i can do and i wish things were diffeerrent and that i respect their desion.
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emjanedel · 21/03/2011 21:49
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