Ok im having a little rant as im slightly annoyed with DP my DSS woke up this morning, my DP went to get some weetabix for my DSS who is 2 and a half and there wasnt any, I had forgotten to get them yesterday (I am Pregnant) my DSS screamed the house down because thats what he has every morning, that or porridge, the alternatives were blueberry Jam on toast and honey cluster special K, he loves jam on toast but my partner pandered to his screaming and was going to buy some weetabix from the shop!!!
I have a DS already who is 6 and if he done that I would not of given in, I give him his options and if that wasnt good enough I would have left it on the table so when he has calmed down he will eat it.
I feel like such a MATRON! with my DSS as his granda and Auntie always pander to him, they allow him to demand what he wants and give it to him, they allow him to go through their handbags to find mints, I personally think it not appropriate as I would not allow my son to do it.
As it happens my DSS has eaten All his jam on toast and is now a happy boy, so was I right or wrong??
We need to get this right as with my first DS of course its your first child and you just want to make them happy which i did and it resulted in him being a little demanding which has now nearly stopped as ive changed the way we do things
Phew thats me finished....bringing up children is the hardest and most important thing you will ever do ( I feel ) I just want to get it right.
Please give advice xx
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babybumpx · 12/03/2011 07:52
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