maybe this should be in AIBU..?
but honestly... I have been with DH now for 10 years and married for 8. He has two boys who were v young when we got together (wife decided to split, nothing to do with me - did not meet DH till after).
We deliberately moved to be near the boys hwen we first got together. One now lives with us. Both boys are fabulous btw and we all get on great and spend a lot of time together.
ExW has been terrible and manipulative and downright awful to DSS and to DH. I am obviously doing a lot of the parenting to DSS who lives with us (both DH and I often travel abroad for work but never at same time). ExW has written to school saying I am not to be included in anything to do with DSS as am not his parent. Am not to sign any school forms, has written to doctor to say am not allowed to sign anything relating to his healthcare, has written to his sports clubs saying not to have me on email list for any communications as am not his mother....
Tells anyone who cares to listen that, whilst she is "ok" with the fact that DSS now lives with us, that she is clear that I am NOTHING to do with it, and must not be allowed to make any decisions relating to DSS...
I dont think I feel p*ssed off as such (as her miserable life so different from mine), just want to say to her - you know what? your son hates you so much he couldnt bear to live with you any more. I support him and offer him a good role model for what a parent should do. He has flourished ever since he came to live with us.
School and doctor and so on have said, thanks for informing us (but have ignored her attempts to dictate!). Just wanted to get that off my chest!!
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ladydeedy · 10/03/2011 00:13
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