I posted on here a few times now with my ongoinmg saga and feel like i am getting boring but my friends and family don't get why i am so down about this whole thing. quick recap - sd doesn't want to see me as she finds seeing me too traumatic so court has allowed interim contact between DP and SD for 12 weeks then DP wishes to progress contact until it is eventual staying contact. Anyway DP had his contact on sunday with SD and came back, i asked how it went. God, i wish i hadn't.SD is nearly 11. She says to DP "my mum says in a few weeks i will have to see x and y" (me and our DD). DP says yes it is my hope that we can all start spending some time togteher. SD replies "but i don't want to see x + y". She gets upset, starts crying saying that it she doesn't like seeing me and dd becuse it upsets her. DP then says to her that we will all do what makes her happy, if that means not seeing me and DD then so be it - to which the tears stop.
I am now ready to walk. This whole thing is making DP ill, been to the dr and dr is concened and sent him for tests. I didn't think that this would be easy but i didn't think it would be so horrendous, i just want to take my DD and get out of the situation (it must be that fun for here as court case provokes long discussions and on occasions rows. I want to give my little girl a happy life. But feel strangled. When we go to his family and friends the conversation is all about his dd and how she doesn't want anything to dop with me ( am beginning to feel a cross between myra hindly and rose west). I just want to feel there is light at the edge of the tunnel.
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emjanedel · 03/03/2011 13:12
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