I am concerned about my step daughter (14) and her skewed feelings towards her dad. This weekend we had plans to go out as a family to the cinema and she decided she wanted to go to her boyfriends instead for the evening, she had seen him the whole day on Saturday and we always have family time on Sunday evening if it is just sitting down for an evening meal together.
When she was told no she went into one and started dragging up stuff from the past, that her dad was responsible for her mothers happiness even now (even though he is married to me), insinuating now and that her father was to blame, they split up over 4 years ago now and she is still holding a load of anger.
Has anyone got any ideas of how to deal with this, any books you could recommend given it is over 4 years after the split to help her deal with her feelings and any ideas of how we can rebuild the relationship with her. She excludes herself from as many things as possible that we suggest.
Help! I am worried for her that this feelings and attitude will stay with her into adulthood and ruin her chance of happy relationships.
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EmilyD · 21/02/2011 11:03
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