Dd has a girl in her unit who has very poor speech. A couple of times dd has mimicked this little girl at home and I was mortified. As in * speaks like this. Now I know dd is not being horrible but just saying what she thinks, as she does do.
Well yesterday she said it again that her friends doesn't speak very well. I explained that her friends tries really hard to speak well and that she will get there one day. Also she would be very sad if she heard you say that as she does try so hard. Dd's reply "She will never speak well".
How do you tell a child that says what she thinks, takes everything literal and has difficulties understanding what's right and wrong that this is not acceptable. Obviously this little girl does have poor speech and that's all dd can see/hear/ I would just hate for her to say anything to this child.
If ds had said this (and he has said things before like most children) I would explain you mustn't say that it's not very nice, would make the other person very upset etc. With dd you can never be sure if it's gone in or not!
The thing is people see it as being rude and I know dd is not being rude. I mean this will make you laugh but made dh want the ground to open up and swallow him. At Pontins dd and dh were in a burger place and dd turns round to dh and says "is that person a man or a lady" It was a lady and I have to say she did look quite butch but it's things like this that leave you
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Blossomhill · 03/07/2005 09:29
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