My son is 7.5 yrs old, with severe and profound learning difficulties. He has no speech and I am lone parenting.
I have got to the stage where I don like my son anymore.The constant noise, demands and destruction have bought me to the end of my tether. I am severely depressed, have my own health problems and have tried GP, SS/SW for help, but got nowhere.
I get three hours respite a week, I used to get six when I wasn't on my own.
I can't reason with my son, he is mentally about 18 months, but the size and strength of a 9/10 year old.
I feel as though I am a machine here just for his needs and if he wern't here I would be nothing as I have gradually lost my identity over the last 6 years. My GP says I am very run down, no kidding and I feel as though there is nothing left for me.
I would put son into care, but his Dad and my family would be horrified.
Mental torture, physical and emotional exhaustion, is this my only choice?
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EileenGrimshaw · 03/11/2007 12:54
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