Since my Ds1 was born I have always felt that he is "different". When he was a baby he cried nonstop and hated being touched, baby massage etc.
As a toddler he was very quiet and reached most of the development milestones late. I spoke to my HV and they got Portage involved. He was assessed and she wanted me to refer him to a school psychologist which would have meant he could have ended up going to a special school. At this point his speech was coming on a lot more and I felt they underestimated how much he could do and so I refused the assessment.
Anyway, 3 years later and I am having worries again. His speech is okay but with a stammer and his teacher says he is behind with his work so he has been given an individual eduacation plan relating to special needs.
Socially he is very confident but he will talk to a classmate and talk about an irrelevant subject or he doesn't "get" the gist of what people are saying. This has caused some of the other children to not play with him anymore and the teacher told me he does this in class when asked a question. If we go to a park he will shadow another child and will say exactly what is on his mind even if it is rude like he has no clue what you should and shouldn't say. They usually run off and he just follows them! He doesn't pick up on social cues unless he is told bluntly.
If I tell him off for something at home like hitting his brother he will apologise profusely and cry and then half an hour later do it again. Its like he genuinely cannot control his impulses.
Any advice please
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bitsnbobs · 02/11/2007 16:57
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