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My DS has epilepsy since birth. Bad seizure control during the Summer. Better now but he still has a seizure every few weeks or if he is sick. At our recent appointment with the neurologist he said he is worried that DS might have development delay. he wants him to be assessed by a physio over a number of different sessions to form a proper opinion. he said that if he does have development delay he hopes it will be mild. i did alraedy have some concerns before the appointment but hoped I was being paranoid and that things would improve - some friends keep telling me there's nothing wrong but I have been worried for a while now.
DS is almost 14 months.
He sat unsupported badly at 9 months (could just fall over after a ittle while) and very well since about 10.5 months. He pulled up for the first time at 12 months. He commando crawls backwards since about 12.5 months and crawls backwards now. Doesn't crawl forwards. Can get from tummy to sitting and sitting to tummy. Neurologists thinks he may still lack tone generally.
He answers to his name since about 1 year old. bables ma ma and bab ba loads. but indiscrimitely. Likes singing and peekaboo and playing round and round the garden. Does not clap handies, wave or point yet (although did copy me clapping once when about 13 months but then not again). Does not respond to 'give it to me' commands or 'where's the?'. I don't think he understands what I say.
Both I and dh are now very worried. Partly it's the not knowing what will come - what will my ds be able to do, will he be ok in life. Partly it's afraid of finding out answers we don't want to hear. I just feel sad all of the time now. We don't want to talk to friends or family about this yet until we know more.
Does this developement delay story sound similar to any of your experiences and how did it turn out? How did you get past the original feelings of sadness or does that ever go away?
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Diddum · 31/10/2007 14:54
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