My 15 yo (who doesn't live with us) accused me of making it all upwith regards to dd's CP and ds's Aspergers. She claims MIL (who she lives with) says I have Munchausens. Apparently I'm making up my MS too.
Felt very hurt but now feel angry at the poison of MIL and ex-friends who think this is all a fake. Alaos puzzled as to how one fakes a totally immobile 3 year old, seziures plus MRI with big holes in and abnormal EEG's. I know I'm a genius but ffs.
The ASD thing is usual, I bet there's many told they were attention seeking when they say their child has ASD.
DD also said I shouldn't take dd2 out as I'm being 'in your face' about disability and that is shameful.
POsting this cos (a) I'm attention seeking (naturally) and (b) Just what do you say once the hurt has died down?
I know she doesn't really think her sister doesn't have CP but that she doesn't care. Not once when dd was in hospital recently did MIL and dd1 call to see if she was even still alive let alone how we felt facing Lennox-gastaut syndrome and she never asks about her. But telling me I don't have MS has just floored me. I but 900 quid wheelchairs because I like throwing money aound? I walk with a stick because I enjoy being called 'spazz' in the street?
But thats me, attentionseeking again.
Feeling very hurt.
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needmorecoffee · 18/10/2007 10:54
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