Hello there! I am new to mumsnet and I hope that I am doing this right! I am looking for advice, experiences, reassurance really! Hope that you might help!
This is the very short version as I could probably write an essay and will never get to the point so here goes....!
My DS1 was born very early (26 weeks) and was very poorly in intensive care for 6 months, ventilated on and off, 3 big operations and home on oxygen for 3 months. he has always been very undemanding and placid and until he hit nursery @ 3 we didn't really worry about anything other than his speech delay-we were blessed and grateful that he was here!
Has been dx as speech and lang delay, with Developmental delay and problems with fine and gross motor skills. Battled to get him a statement and have just secured him a place in special needs unit within a mainstream school which has seen great results and has a good reputaion (has anybody else had any experience of these units?) He has started abd has settled in really well - he is slowly making progess and is running about 1.5-2 years behind. His consultant is convinced that it is due to his prematurity and will take time to catch up - I know we were prepared for this to be the case but I am petrified that she might be missing someting! He takes well to new people and situations, rarely has tantrums (not often or regular) and is desperate to interact with his peers (although alot of his speech is still not clear) but I read on another website that spinning wheels on cars etc is a sign of autism, he used to do this but not so much now,-should I be worried? He aslso has an obsession with door handles - is that another sign? and he copies adverts off the tele - i don't want to push the cons if she is happy with her dx but I am petrified that something might be overlooked. He is so happy, friendly, non-assuming (too placid actually!) and he is really coming on now-should I give it time? or am i spending too much time on the negative and not enough on the positive?
Am I being over the top or should I just wait and see how he gets on at school - the unit seems fantastic and his teachers are great and all the people involved in his care are convinced he is well placed there- - I am just really scared that it is being put down to a catch up game or is that quite normal for such prem babies to catch up and run behind for some time??? I am going on-sorry! - ANY stories or experiences or opinions welcome PLEASE!- need some reassurance before I do my own head in!!! On my mind constantly - cannot sleep!!! Am I being totally over the top? My other half totally trusts the cons and her dx - maybe I should too?
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MissiMoo · 16/10/2007 22:55
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