DD (14 months) got diagnosed with CP (right hemiplegia) a month ago. We left hospital with promises of physio and OT - which hasn't happened as they are waiting for a new member of staff to start at the end of June. We were promised a full written report - which is still waiting to be 'typed-up'. We were told her CP is mild - aren't we lucky? How many people have told me we are lucky this last month? I don't feel lucky.
No-one has told me how to manage DD's behaviour - she cries all the time unless in my arms (and often in my arms too) - I cannot even go to the toilet. I have to carry her everywhere around the house and I now have shooting pains and numbness in my arm when I pick her up. I don't think anyone understands how hard it is to carry around all day a little one who should be crawling or walking.
I'm sure half of her behaviour is utter frustration. She doesn't want to be stuck in one place, she wants to be running around the garden with her sister (2.9), she wants to be making a den under the kitchen table, sliding down slides, climbing through the veggie patch. It breaks my heart. We were at the swing park today and there was a little boy who looked the same age as my DD - he was toddling around and got onto a little round-a-bout with my older DD- they were both squealing with delight. I want that, I want my two girls to be able to run around together. We have been told she will walk but have no idea when - at the moment she is nowhere near even crawling. I can't see any end in sight and the prospect of another how many months of carrying her everywhere makes me feel quite desperate. I feel upset the the paeditrician goes on about how it's all very mild and we are told about the physical bits but no-one mentioned how you are actually meant to cope with a tiny little angry girlie who doesn't know why her body doesn't work properly.
We got our diagnosis on the 1st may and I feel like we were so god damn innocent before, maybe blissfully unaware who knows? but now I just feel so so sad.
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