I am not sure if this is the right place for this, not sure is dyspraxia is considered a special need, if not I apologise! Ds2 is 6, for 2.5 years we have been seeing a community paediatrician who sent us to an occupational therapist, who sent us to salt and a vision training clinic. The therapists have been brilliant, we have changed oc in this time due to maternity leave and 2 years on the second oc basically confirmed everything the original one had said 2 years ago.
Ds2 has poor motor skills, is on the verge of hypo mobility in his joints, his speech was immature, using me/him/her instead of I/he/she, failing to differentiate between male/female, struggling with verbalising things that happened. At home he has tantrums (meltdowns maybe, not normal toddler tantrums). He doesn't recognise danger, for example he will go up to the hob and try to tip the saucepan to look inside, despite being told constantly of the danger. He can ride a bike, but tends to steer to the side he is peddling with so zigzags a lot. Other children seem to find him, for want of another word, 'different' or 'odd'. He doesn't seem to see social cues, so can be very full on with new acquaintances, he doesn't realise his own strength. The list is endless to be honest, or that is how it feels.
All along the oc have said they do not diagnose, but at the app yesterday with the paediatrician he said that he deals with ADHD and ads, which he doesn't have and it is up to the oc to diagnose and he could do no more for us, but we could get re referred should I feel the need. I pushed a little, as I am fed up with being given the run around, and he said well, yes, ds2 dies have dyspraxia and that that is what all the reports have said, but just have not used that terminology. I actually do not know why I am posting here, maybe I just need to get it all out. I have known since ds2 was young that this was probably the case, I asked for help when he was 3.5, but now I am at a loss, feeling confused. He is the most affectionate little boy, eager to please when in the right mood, but when he isn't he does not hold back. He is, though, very well behaved at school, but comes home like a coiled spring ready to release so I get it all.
The school are meant to be arranging for a specialist teacher to see him, maybe the ed psych and the ot plans a school visit. Is there more I should be doing?
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DustyCropHopper · 09/08/2014 00:48
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