My DS is 7 (8 in September) and is in Year 2. He has Asperger's and strong PDA traits. He's been finding school more of a struggle this year and getting angry/aggressive to the point of having two fixed term exclusions in the last few weeks of term. I suspect he would have been excluded permanently if he'd have carried on doing full days, but he's only doing mornings at school now.
We've always had behavioural issues as he is fixated on what he wants and will refuse to do as he is asked. However in the last two months or so he's just been so much more volatile and aggressive. It only takes the slightest thing now, and in a flash he gets upset. He will kick the walls/doors, push chairs over, stomp around the house aggressively and just really lose it. He has thrown chairs at school and tried to tip over a table. It really scares me as I haven't seen this level of behaviour in him before. Today he pushed me when I tried to calm him down.
Yet in between these flare ups he's the same thoughtful, clever and lovely boy he's always been. He's like a Jekyll and Hyde - just when we're having a great time together, without warning, if things don't go his way he just flips into being out of control.
I know the end of term is a really stressful time, and he's facing the transition to Junior school in September as well. I'm fighting very hard to get him the right support at school - including taking the LA to tribunal for statutory assessment. But I have no support in dealing with his behaviour and don't know what else I can do to help him...
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Sudden increase in aggressive meltdowns in 7 yo
CurrerBell · 20/07/2014 22:56
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