I don't expect any solutions or anything, just wanted to express this I suppose. I am having a bit of a down-feeling time around the fact that my little boy cannot talk and is very unlikely to ever talk (no, not even a single word, unless you count "yeah"). I have dealt with, and continue to deal with, the autism diagnosis, the battles and struggles both with everyday stuff and the big stuff like local authorities and tribunals and money troubles....etc etc....I am strong and keep going through everything, of course, like we all do.
But I am feeling sadder and sadder about the nonverbal nature of his life. Language and talking is such big thing to me, it is essentially what I am about in many ways, it is the main tool whereby I earn my living. I talk a great deal, I read and write a great deal. It is what I am best at doing. He can understand lots of language, and he can type out some words on a keyboard (well lots of words really, but not in a conversational way). But he cant talk. It's such a big part of being human and it is denied to him. I am really struggling with this.
Sorry, rather a downer, but I just really really sad right now. Upwards and onwards and continue the battle always and forever, of course. But still....
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