Hi, just wondering if anyone has any thoughts. My 3 year old DS has a severe communication delay, we are in the process of getting him an ASD diagnosis. So far his nursery have tried to be accommodating, stating that although they are not experienced in this area, they are training their staff etc. They also have top up funding to buy in someone to work 121 with him all the time. However it seems since we dropped the term autistic to them, they have suddenly out of the blue decided that his current two full days are too much for him and want to cut this down to two half days, (which is disastrous for me as a I also have a very young baby.) Despite having been told repeatedly when we collect him that he "has had a good day today". I would also like to add he is a very sweet boy, not violent to any other children. He just requires additional support (for which they receive a lot of extra funding) as he is so delayed with his communication, learns differently and has a door/window obsession. It feels at the moment that he is just a problem to them, that they would like to get rid of. Are they within their rights to do this? And will all nurseries, pre-schools be the same? If we look else where.
I don't want to take him out as he seems happy there, and it is what is best for him at the end of the day, even though two half days is not ideal. It just breaks my heart, that because he does require extra help and support, he is viewed as a problem. Are we SN Mums not entitled to the same rights to get child care as everyone else?
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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