Just asked for a social worker

[jambuttie]

and feel awful

I am struggling a bit to cope with the kids- so want to take all the problems away from them, be a super mumetc

I always thought social workers were for bad people didnt realise this option was available for disabled kids.

For many that know my story and thjose who dont

I have 3 sons. 1@ 4.5yrs and 2.5 yrs old twins- 1 awaiting autism dx and 1 development delay and dyspraxia.

I feel ds1(4.5) gets left out due to the twins conditions, and fights for attention too. All our time is taken by hospital appts etc.

If they would deffo confirm dx i feel it would be easier to deal with

Am I bad for asking for a social worker?

[bundle]

of course you're not being bad asking for a social worker, you've got heaps to cope with and they might be able to get you some help, xx

[Littlefish]

No, you're not bad for asking for a social worker. You are a caring and loving mum who is asking for support. I hope you get the right support for you and your family.

[Davros]

You are absolutely RIGHT to ask for a social worker. Soc Svs have disabled children's teams just for people like us! And they can offer a lot of support. It may take time and effort to get into the system and get what you need, but its well worth it.

[MoreTeaAnyone]

You are doing the right thing and everyone will fell better for it. Good for you.

[trinityrhino]

I asked for a social worker don't feel bad, I would say good luck though casue I asked for help 6 months ago.....still waiting

[Davros]

BTW, keep an eye on how long they take from your request to completing the assessment (its called a Child In Need assessment, don't be put off by the name). There is a set time they have to respond but I don't know what it is...... Also ask for a Carer's Assessment.