My ds age 6 has spd and suspected ADHD being assessed at the moment. He had a massive meltdown at my mothers house yesterday after she started winding him up and pretending to keep his bear.
Cut a long story short I just received the most vile email from her telling me she blames me for all his issues and I can't blame so called ADHD when it is my poor parenting that has caused him to be the awful child he is. She feels so sorry for him as its all my fault he is the way he is as apparently he is a million times worse in my presence. I could go on but it was several paragraphs of the same awful comments I am so hurt and stunned at some of the things she has said to me I don't even know what to do or say. Especially when she caused the bloody meltdown yesterday.
Apparently because of me the teachers will think I'm a awful parent and I have a bad attitude and he will end of being held back because of me.
Where we go from here I just don't know as I feel completely broken by what she has said and some of the things though I take on board I don't think I could ever forgive her for.
Today for other reasons was the second most special day of my life which she knew and yet she chose today to piss all over by her nasty vile comments.
I have tried to educate her on spd but she is not interested. So hurt I just need to vent. I don't even know how to respond.
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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So so hurt
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