Hi Just a quick rant and I'm also wondering has anyone else experienced this kind of reaction. As it says in the title my ds is quite severely disabled. I have always worked since leaving school (mostly full-time) and when I had my ds went back to work two days per week whilst my husband worked full time. However at the beginning of the year I chose to stay at home simply because on average he had up to two appts per week to attend and they seemed to always fall on the days I was at work! Also my DS needed me. He was at day nursery and it just wasn't ideal for him. In general people were ok with this but since he's started special school they seem to think they can ask what my intentions are with regards to going back to work! I constantly get asked what I'm doing with all my spare time and how great it must be! I have an older child as well. My DS cannot be left alone and his play is purely exploratory (not constructive with anything) and everything goes in his mouth. I would be hard pushed to find a job that would give me all of the school hols and don't want to introduce another setting for him after school. He needs his "Mum"! It's really beginning to get me down as people must think I'm lazy! Even my mother -in -law as started making suggestions as to how I can fill my time. I would never dream of asking a full-time working mum does she not feel she should work less hours and spend more time with her kids so why do people feel they can judge my life. In the last year we've had so much to come to terms with my son's diagnosis. He's assessed as being the same as a baby under twelve months yet others think they can make remarks about my wonderful life as a lady of leisure! Rant over!
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