I don't know if I'm worrying needlessly about this and would really appreciate if you could tell me what you think.
As some of you already know, ds is 6 years old with ASD and attends mainstream. Even though he has an LSA funded by school, the headteacher, way back last July, said she felt that he needed statmenting and said that she would start the process once the new school year started in September. The months have rolled by and it's taken this long for all the paperwork to finally be completed, and we will eventually have an answer in a few weeks time. I'm not even going to go into how disappointed I am that it's taken this long, and I just wish I listened to some of you that encouraged me to do it myself at the beginning, I just felt that with their knowledge of ds's difficulties at school it would carry more weight than if I applied.
Several days ago his LSA asked me if I would make some comments with regards to his school action plus, something I've never been asked to do before, actually this school year I've not even had a meeting with reagrds to his IEP (although many meetings in reception), so was abit surprised that they wanted my contribution all of a sudden. It then occured to me that OFSTEAD were making a visit on Wednesday, and this most probably was why they wanted me to quickly do this, looks like my suspicions were right when they asked me to sign it for Dec 05!! TBH I feel they've put an enormous amount of energy into helping ds, and felt that I owed it to them to quickly scribble an encouraging note. So I wrote something like 'Really pleased with ds's progress and feel fortunate that ds is able to attend a school that is so aware of his needs'
Now I'm kicking myself. At around the end of last year I wrote a report to the LEA stating how concerned I was about ds's progress, and now I'm worrying that if the lEA come to assess they'll read the note on his IEP that says how pleased I am with his progress, which going by the date will seem I wrote at the same time as their report, sounds like I'm just contradicting myself. I know how the LEA will pick up on the tiniest thing to deny a statement and I feel that this remark will balls up his statement. Am I being ridiculous, will it make such a difference, I'm so angry that I'm always so quick to please that I didn't even consider the implications. What do you think, am I making a big deal abouit nothing? Should I write to the school and ask them to make sure that my comments are not seen by the lEA? Is it such a big deal??
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