Hi, my nearly 7yo DS has Asperger's with demand avoidance issues (possibly he has PDA). He really freaked out on a trip last year and was running about all over the place - none of the teachers could control him at all. He has been ok on previous trips (I think), but this particular one was a disaster. There is another trip coming up soon and the teacher has asked if I could bring him in our own car so we can remove him if necessary - otherwise he'll have to stay at school. It's a science-based trip which I know he'll love, so I don't want him to miss out.
I know they're not being unreasonable (although it's quite inconvenient for in us in terms of the car/my husbands's work), but it's just made me feel quite down that they can't cope with him...
I don't know if I should be pushing for one-to-one support for him generally... He seems to be mainly coping in the classroom with a lot of understanding from the teacher... but my worry is he can be unpredictable and teachers may not always be so understanding once he goes to Juniors.
For example yesterday he set off the fire alarm (after being told not to touch it) and the whole school had to evacuate and the fire brigade came! I'm so embarrassed and we've had a big talk about the gravity of the situation...
He also struggles a lot with things like concerts, sports day, assemblies etc and needs to sit out or be given a special job with one-to-one for these times. He hasn't got any official support at the moment and because he's doing well academically the teachers don't seem to think he would get any...
Just feeling quite low today and just kind of want to know I'm not alone, if that makes sense!
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