I apologise for the long post but I just wanted to explain our situation properly...
My dd is 3 (4 next month) and on thursday she was officially diagnosed with Autism. This hasn't come as a major surprise as we suspected it but now its official its really hit home and scared the life out of me and dh. We are a young couple (both 25) and have no idea what to do next and we feel completely lost.
Our dd means the absolute world to us and we want to do the best we can for her but we don't have the first clue where to start or what help is available to us so we would really appreciate any advice fellow parents of autistic children can offer.
Our dds autism is severe speech delay and lack of understanding. She has a very very limited vocabulary and the only one of the few words she says in the right context is "bye" and no matter how much we tell her or explain things to her she simply doesn't understand what is being said to her-things such as "don't climb that" mean nothing to her,but she understands "we're going out" and "time for bed",that's pretty much it. She only answers to her name half the time too.
She is a very loving,happy little girl and very logically minded and intelligent in her own way. We simply don't know how we can help to bring on her speech and help her to understand things. It has been decided for us that she will not be starting school in september this year and will instead be staying on at nursery for another year and the nursery can now apply for funding to get in a specialist member of staff to do 1:1 care with her but we've been offered no help or advice on what we can do at home with her. We have our 2nd baby on the way (due in october) and would like to have the right help and routines fully established by the time the new baby comes :)
Any help or advice anyone can offer us will be greatly recieved-the appointment with our gp this afternoon proved to be a waste of time as she couldn't help or give us any advice except to do our own research!
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BiscuitDunker · 13/07/2013 22:30
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