My youngest has an obsession bordering on a terror of all things insect. He screams and utterly, utterly melts down. It's actually down in all his plans because if he sees an insect he will run and if that's under a truck, then it's under a truck! He loses all control. So anyone who's with him knows to grab him, fast.
He screams if a window in the house is open, he screams all the way down the path, he can't function outside at all the moment he sees an insect or if he even suspects there will be one.
So. Would you buy a beekeepers hat (he will use a coat to cover his head so I am fairly sure that a beekeepers hat would enable him to function outdoors) or would you say no, he has to learn that there is never going to come a time when there won't be insects and he has to learn to cope.
I just want to get him the hat to help to deal with his terror. I don't think it matters if he wears a beekeepers hat for the rest of his life! If it means he has a life outside a sealed up house!
My husband thinks that would be the worst thing to do because it's enabling him to continue the way he is instead of addressing the problem.
addressing the problem is so far not working! We show him pictures of insects, we watch tv programmes about insects, we show him how helpful they are, etc, but none of this matters if he sees something flying near him.
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Cast your vote here! Beekeepers hat or not :D
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ImTooHecsyForYourParty · 13/07/2013 15:31
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