Am looking for some thoughts about experiences with neighbours. Basically we currently live in countryside in rented house. Very few neighbours and v private. Want to move and buy a house but can't afford the cash needed for similarly isolated house. Am very scared of having issues with neighbours due to ds noise, meltdowns etc. ds very severely autistic is loud. He is loud when his happy and even louder when anxious or upset. Am looking at detached but still am worrying about being overlooked in garden. Am I being OTT? I should add have had a bad experince before when neighbours reported us to ss on basis on ds noise. Nothing happened and they accepted he was making noise due to his disability but I found it incredibly upsetting. What would you do? I kind of feel we are trapped by ds disability as so many normal decisions are impossie to make. Saw a house I quite liked and could afford today but it is on modern housing estate and am already stressing about ds shouting and screaming in garden.
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