DS is 3 years and 2 months. He spends a lot of time with us due to my cousin suffering from MH issues. She just isn't coping with anything and we're helping out.
He's been coming to me almost daily for 6 months now and I'm more and more concerned daily.
He is very echolalic and has no other speech apart from learned phrases...some of it is from tv and other bits are what you've just said to him...no waving or pointing...but he is sociable and loves my DC for games like jumping on the trampoline.
He seems to be unable to approach other DC in a "proper" way...I've been taking him to a Mothers and Toddlers recently and he has this way of pushing his face into other DCs faces and also putting his hands into their hair and kind of...twiddling his fingers very fast.
It's making me sad as he smiles and is pleased to see the DC but he can't read their reactions or something as he just keeps doing it and it's got to the stage where I have to constantly jump up to remove him from another child's hair.
He wont use a spoon but used his hands and no matter how hard I try, he just won't do it.
(I have googled ASD a LOT and am becoming more convinced he is on the spectrum...he's got poor eye contact and doesn't answer to his name. He also has the odd vacant moment though these seem to have become less lately.
He doesn't/cannot ask for anything...no "Where's Daddy?" or "Hello Neo!"
and is still in nappies...no sign of wanting to potty train and cousin doesn't want me to try as she's just not there in terms of supporting him at the moment.
He is excellent with numbers and can count to about 100...he also can name all letters of the alphabet....he loves being read to and playing on the computer and watches TV for hours id I'd let him. If I ask him what a certain picture in a book is, he will often tell me..."Train" he loves trains and cars. When he plays, he doesn't play if you know what I mean...he moves things around a lot and empties stuff out or bites things. Unless it's a computer!
I have managed to get his Dad to enroll him in preschool but he's not starting for a month....I suggested they get his ears checked but Dad has not made an appointment.
He's a good Dad but VERY stressed...abuot my cousin and about the DS...I think he's suspecting something is amiss with DS but stuicking his head int he sand about it.
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Looking for advice and opinions on cousin's DS aged 3....sensory seeking and social interaction?
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NeoMaxiZoomDweebie · 15/03/2013 19:44
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