I had to go into the class after school to sign the school's referral, and it was an unreal experience.
"Is that my son?
No, his behavior is too obsessive,
That's not my son.
Is that my son?
No, his need for adult supervision is too high'
That's not my son.
Is that my son?
No, he has social, behavioral and emotional problems affecting his class work,
That's not my son.
Is that my son?
No, his concentration problems are preventing full access to the curriculum,
That's not my son."
Then I looked up, and there he was, reading a book and fidgeting away with the TA, and I could have cried.
"Is that my son?
Yes, he is perfect in every way.
That's my son!"
It was like reading about a different child. A difficult, uncooperative, obsessive-compulsive child. That's not my son. My son is sunny, and easy going. He doesn't worry, not when he is at home with me
I am concerned that they have over-egged the pudding in order to get classroom help - and have forgotten that this is not just a difficult situation they are writing about. That's my son.
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I read through my son's paed referral yesterday, and I was reminded of a book
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colditz · 26/02/2008 18:15
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