Wasn't sure where to put this or in fact what I'm asking really...
My ds, 3.3 is quirky, that's the word everyone uses to describe him. About a year ago I raised my concerns with nursery (he is there 2 days a week), re possible autistic tendencies. They agreed and arranged for someone to come in and observe him. The only real things the assessment? showed were difficulties socially. They have been working on this.
Today one of the nursery workers said the assessor was in nursery for another child and they asking her to have a quick look at ds, less worries now but she will come back for a proper assessment in a few months.
All fine, except she then said the assessor can't make a diagnosis and if we are concerned we need to see the gp for a proper referral. I said I wasn't concerned, but now I'm worried I should be. She also said the assessor can/will fill in a caf form so they can get a ta in for support.
I just feel like there are really mixed messages as on the one hand they are saying he's just quirky and lots of the things we were worried about eg speech, wanting everything his own way etc have improved massively, but on the other they are saying he'll have a caf and support.
I don't know whether to be concerned or not? I don't want to set him down a path if his oddities are within the relms of normal, but if he needs support I want to make sure he has it. He just seems so young when the spectrum of what's 'normal' is so broad.
I know I should have asked more this morning but I was a bit surprised and this was a conversation at drop off with other parents milling about so didn't feel appropriate. Please don't think this is about me denying any problems, I'm just worried he's going to be unnecessarily pigeon holed, or maybe it is necessary??? Argh.
The only real concerns I have is that he isn't interested in interacting with other children, though he will with adults, whether he knows them or not. And he will often completely ignore you if he doesn't like a question. He is very quick to form habits too but there is no massive trauma if we don't stick to them, there used to be but he will accept he can't have everything his way now .
Like I said, not sure what I'm asking really. Just needed to get it down. Sorry for the epic post!
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TittyBojangles · 04/02/2014 08:18
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