Sorry about how this sound but I have come back from parents evening with the year 3 teacher tonight and am feeling very down and afraid for the future. I have always known my son struggles and after lots of assessments this year he was diagnosed with dyspraxia and probable specific learning difficulties what ever that means. I suspect he is also on autistic spectrum mildly as has some sensory issues. In year 2 sats he did ok apart from writing but tonight I have been told his baseline asst for year 3 is lower. He has been given the same poor score 1b in writing but now 2b not 2a in reading and 2c not 2b in maths. The teacher said he will not get to expected minimum level by end of year of 2a/3c. This follows a review with senior and teacher three weeks ago at our request due to groups he had been put in that seemed a lot lower than last year at which I was told no reason could not get to 4b by end of key stage 2. I just feel completely confused?The teacher seemed most bothered about giving him something to chew with as he is always chewing pencils and not so interested in the fact he can't stay sitting for long. He seems unable to produce any work on his own that you can read. It's always hard to look at his books as I can't read a thing. I asked for him to use a computer this year and we at least now get spaces in the words but I now realise how bad his spelling and sentence construction is. Though still getting maybe two sentences. I am really worried for his future I feel people see him as a disabled child now Lacking intelligence Rather than the average child I saw him as. I don't want to see him like that. Not because I can't embrace different abilities but because working with adults with learning disabilities has made me realise how hard life is and how peoples aspirations just get quashed. I don't want that for him. I just don't know what I should focus on to help is it writing, computer, maths, his Ot exercises, homework, spellings, out of school stuff, friends. I just can't do it all. I know to there are issues with his visual tracking. I just feel so helpless and as though I am failing him.
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