Any suggestions on how to tackle this please? My son is a Year 9. He is on School Action Plus and was assessed as Dyslexic at primary school. During change of primary school, his ed psych report was "lost". There has never been anything on paper since Year 3 to confirm this. The ed psych service hasn't got anything on record( I chased them for a copy), so everybody has been bumbling along. He has had private colourimetry and wears tinted lenses, as my other children do.
He completed Toe by Toe etc. at primary and from recollection (without checking) was level 4 Maths and English. On transfer to secondary, the school was obviously made aware of the situation. At the end of Year 7, he was a 6c in science - now he is a 3c. His target is a 3b - due for review in the Spring. Maths and English are 5b. His reading age is now two years below his chronological age.
He has been really frustrated as he gets no support at all, finds it difficult to recall instructions, especially with relation to the dreaded homework planner. He is in a mix of sets one and two. He knows his short term memory causes him problems and he is increasingly fed up at having no strategy, especially for maths,to help him recall what he's learned. He tells me he understands it but then it's gone and he has to learn it again but has to sit and wait because there isn't enough support in class.
I've read some of his written work and it makes little sense. However, I have scribed for him at home with much better results, as I have told the school. It's the classic it's all in his head but he can't get it out.The Senco promises the world when I see her (several times now) but she is there just two days a week. They have now put a mentor in place to boost his confidence but nothing else. His IEP was completed without consultation (again) and doesn't even include a strategy to address his poor reading (not mentioned at all, infact). There is no reference to his slow progress - he was devastated when I told him. The school is a mess. When challenged, they seem more concerned in telling me what a nice boy he is! Oh yes, and that he is meeting his (rubbish) targets. They are incapable of actually acknowledging there is a problem and there is no consistency in what teaching staff say he can do and what I see. I don't mean that as a pushy parent. I just want realistic answers to realistic questions. If there is no possibility of him getting any good GCSEs, we need to steer him the right way and build him up. Yet another teacher will say he can get B's. Has anyone else come across this "non-speak" which tells you nothing?
He is supposed to be on a waiting list now for reassessment with the ed psych but it could be a long wait. He was also bullied by a teacher at this school when he started because he couldn't recall all of his timestables (he was sitting up at night and writing them out like lines because he knew he would get them wrong and be asked to do this as punishment). I reported this and they moved him into a different group. The teacher, inspite of complaints by other parents, stayed until retirement - gives you a flavour of the school?
At the end of the last academic year, my son wanted to move schools. We asked to speak to someone (it is a small school). I phoned them again two days later, as no-one returned my call. That's when we were offered the ed psych waiting list.
Things are supposed to be getting better. I don't see it but they have to....there is only one other school in the area with space to take him and they will offer a reduced number of options because of his current curriculum.
I am waiting for an appointment with the headteacher, having declined one with the head of year, as that was a waste of time last year. Son now doesn't want to move, as he has friends. Any suggestions on what to ask for/how to tackle this. It can't continue. I feel like I'm in an education fog, exaccerbated by being an oldie (not used to the all the levels and GCSEs). I'm letting him down by not getting this sorted out.
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silversea · 16/10/2012 23:12
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