I have an amazing 2 year old daughter - she's great fun all day but bedtime is a nightmare. She won't even entertain sleep unless I put her to bed - daddy is no substitute in her book. I've never not put her to bed - in 2 years! She won't sleep unless I sit next to her bed (screams the house down if I so much as attempt to leave her room) and even tells me to lie down next to her. Trouble is, she falls asleep in her own time and that can take up to 2 hours. I end up frazzled, frustrated and angry with her which then leads to hideous feelings of guilt as I love her more than anything. Some times I even resent her as she's taking my free time away and I don't get the chance to relax or be 'me' anymore. Why won't she sleep without me at her side? Is it possible for a child to be too attached to a parent? I know I hate being without her and haven't ever been happy when we are seperated (I work 3 days a week) but she needs her sleep and I need time to get on with day to day stuff, eat dinner, be with my husband.... I am tired and dread her bedtime. What can I do? I've tried gradual withdrawl, I've tried controlled crying but none work. I can't sit with her for hours each night, its no good for any of us! She doesn't like it when I go out without her either, I am trying to run but some days she clings to my leg and won't let me out the door - just seeing her so distressed makes me feel guilty so I don't go..... Anyone else in the same boat? Any tips? Will it pass?
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2 year old so attached to me she won't sleep unless I'm with her!
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Jojo1234 · 03/10/2006 14:01
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