I miss dd being in my room at night

[animalsunited]

Just moved dc3 into her own room, she's nearly four months.

I would have liked to keep her in my room for a bit longer, but dh doesn't like baby in our room as it keeps him awake.

I miss her and she looks so tiny in her cot

I could sleep in with her as there is a bed in her room but the mattress is uncomfortable and I struggle on it.

I didn't have this turmoil with my older two, maybe it's because it's my last baby. I know SIDS guidelines recommended baby in with you for six months but we were disturbing her when we came to bed and she'd outgrown her basket.

I resent my dh because he partly wants room to ourselves so we can chat, read, put light on etc but we have a whole life time for that. On the other hand my older two sleep so well I'm reluctant to do too much different with this one. I'm a bit mixed up really.

We do co sleep from early morning or on bad nights, which I love.

[SoonToBeSix]

Your dh is selfish, dd should be with you until six months. Could you not squeeze a travel cot into the room so you don't wake her when you come to bed. Also tell your dh to grow up.

[Lucky29]

We use white noise so we don't disturb DD when we go to bed.

[wigglylines]

4 months is against medical guidance. Babies should be in the same room as you till 6 months. To do otherwise is a SIDs risk, you know this but does your DH?

I'm still cosleeping with my 16 month old. I love waking up with her. Your DH is being selfish IMO?

Maybe he could sleep in the spare room?

Or if you can't budge him, why not get a comfortable bed for your DD's room for the both of you?

[ThinkIveBeenHacked]

Put dh in the single bed in her room and keep her with you.