Hi - Sorry this is so long but felt I ought to give full background.
My 6 yr old DD has a lot of trouble getting to sleep. She can fairly often be awake at 11pm or later even on a school night. She usually has plenty of exercise during the day, aside from whatever they do at school, and we have a stable bedtime routine. It doesn't seem to be affected by what she eats.
She finds it hard to 'turn off' from the day - this sleep issue started in Year 1 (she is Yr 2 now) - and also to calm her mind down. She suffers from a lot of worry about the dark, monsters and also fires. She knows monsters aren't real but says she can't stop thinking about them. I allow her about 15 mins of reading time with the light on and then I turn off the main light but she has a Gro-Bag thingy on the main light bulb which creates a sort of half-light; she also has a night light and the door open onto the landing where the main light is on.
All she wants to do is read and read because she says if she stops and is left with her own thoughts (I have suggested she makes up stories in her head as a way of drifting off) then the fears become too great. She also worries about school, e.g. she was concerned over the holidays because she knew she would be starting to get literacy HW next term. This is particularly concerning for her because she finds it hard to get work done as she worries about making mistakes and so just doesn't put anything much down. She also gets very worked up by stuff e.g. yesterday she was crying when my mum collected her from school because she couldn't get her origami right and she couldn't find her DOB on a timeline they had been asked to take home and fit their family's DOBs onto.
So she will lie in bed miserably for hours but will also sometimes come downstairs and complain about it and say she is lonely and scared and needs company. If I ever let her cuddle up to me at this stage she falls asleep very quickly.
I took her to the GP who suggested putting her to bed at 9pm rather than earlier and then staying upstairs nearby but this hasn't been particularly effective and was very difficult because my DH doesn't get in until well after 8pm and I then need to do our dinners and we need a little time together of an evening.
Does anyone have any other suggestions, please?
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Sukebind · 10/01/2014 13:22
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