I'm not sure if this is in the right place as it's feeding related too.
I have an 8mo dd. She's been ebf and now we're well into weaning, but she's a bit of a milk monster and doesn't eat that much during the day. We're doing a mix of puree, mashed, and finger foods.
She's always fed to sleep which I am happy to do as it only takes about twenty minutes max now. She'll then stir about 30-40 minutes late and will go back down very quickly with just a cuddle. Then we don't hear from her til her 2am feed, again just feed and then straight back down. Occasionally she will stir but self settle, occasionally will need a cuddle but this is usually teeth related. She'll then sleep til 7am and then happily burble away to herself til I go in.
So far so good. She is fab and I know other mums would give anything for such a routine.
But - and it's a big but - this only happens if I'm doing the settling. She will not settle for dh at all. Like last night when she stirred, he went up to resettle and she went into meltdown, I went in and she was asleep within three minutes of me taking her. Dh is upset that she won't settle for him and I am getting worried because I'm going back to work after Christmas and this will involve me doing late shifts from 2pm til 10pm. So DH will be doing bedtime on his own.
What can we do to get dd to settle for dh? Should I try giving her her bedtime feed from a cup? She's never taken a bottle. Should dh just persevere? Any and all advice is welcome. Thank you!
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8mo won't settle for dh, help!
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TheNaughtySausage · 09/10/2013 10:11
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