Last night we decided to give dd (aged 12.5 months) a bedtime (instead of anytime that she looked tired) and then after I fed her instead of holding her for half an hour until she was properly asleep I put her straight into her cot.
I couldn't do cc so I stayed with her and rubbed her tummy until she fell asleep which only took a couple of minutes.
So feeling very pleased with myself I attempted the same at 2.45am, after I fed her put her in her cot and rubbed and shh'd again but she just screamed and kept getting up for 2 hours . After 1.5 hours I swapped with dp and he was the one who got her to sleep. She also woke twice more after that which is unusual for her and dp went to her both times.
Now did we do anything wrong? Neither of us spoke to her or picked her up but we both felt awful doing this and although she is fine today I don't want to upset her long term.
We plan to try again tonight so any advice would be appreciated please!
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So, we had a go at shh/pat but not sure if we did it correctly
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whoopwhoopbib · 11/04/2013 17:53
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