I have three children. Dd1 is nearly 5, dd2 is nearly 3 and ds is about 10wks old. His arrival hasn't had much negative impact on the DDs as their sleeping was pretty dreadful before so whilst I appreciate it's been a tumultuous few months for them, they really have been always dreadful at going to bed.
We don't change the routine, we don't change the time. We've tried star charts, pocket money, reward charts, threats (no play at the park tomorrow/no sweeties/etc etc). We've tried splitting them up into separate rooms. We've tried putting them in together.
We've tried supernanny. We've tried sitting it out. We've tried just letting them get on with.
I honestly feel like we've done EVERYTHING.
But the only thing, the Only Thing that seems to work, is me going ballistic at them and I CANNOT keep doing it. For a start it can't be good parenting, it can't not be affecting them psychologically, and it cannot surely be the way forward for a decent night's sleep?!!
DH is away at least two nights a week with work so I have to crack this soon or I'll honestly walk out. Added to that is poor DS who really just needs a quiet uninterrupted feed in the evening and a cuddle, rather than being left to wonder where mummy has gone for the umpteenth time to attend to his screaming, crying sisters.
Please help me. I don't think I'm an awful mother, not until bedtime at least, but I cannot fathom what I've ever done wrong to have such a terrible bedtime situation.
If I sound bleak I am but DH has been away for two nights now and so I'm at that GlassHalfEmpty stage.
Sorry.
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MummyElk · 21/01/2013 22:53
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