Hi all,
I was just wondering if anyone could give me any advice? My LO is 12 weeks old and my first baby. He is a great sleeper at night, he goes to bed around 7.30, usually wakes once at around 4am, then sleeps again until 7.30-8am. Since he was around 8 weeks I've been able to put him down sleepy but awake after his bath and last feed (he's breastfed), and he'll drift off with no fussing; likewise he is usually asleep by the time I finish his night feed & goes back down easily. I know I'm very lucky. But day times are becoming increasingly difficult as I struggle to get him to nap.
He will sleep well in the car and the sling, and sometimes this is fine. But as soon as the car engine stops, or I move him out the sling, he wakes up. I can't even get him to sleep in my arms anymore, like I used to when he was little. He sometimes falls asleep when feeding if he's really tired, but only for a few minutes. If I try to put him down sleepy but awake, he cries within minutes, and quickly gets himself into a frenzy very quickly. If I breastfeed him to sleep then put him down, he will usually sleep but often only for 20-40 mins. I wouldn't mind, but by the afternoon he is clearly tired, crying, red eyed etc. I often end up using the sling or a car journey to get him to rest. I've been known to park up with the engine running for an hour so he can sleep! Today he has slept 45 mins all day, and is so unhappy. :-(
I think I need to do some form of sleep training, but don't know where to start. Is he old enough to cry it out? Does it even work for naps? I have known him to cry for over an hour in the daytime when I've been trying to settle him (I've never left him - this has been while rocking/soothing him etc). If he cries for an hour or more, how has that achieved anything if I just want him to nap for an hour or so? Am I being cruel to even consider it?
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12 week baby nap problems
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clarabella1980 · 23/11/2012 18:13
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