Here's the scenario. I hope someone can help.
To start off with, I'm American so I know very little about the English schooling system. I have 2 step-children who live with their mother and are with us for school holidays and on the weekends.
My step-son is soon to be 16 and is in year 11. He's an extremely smart kid but has had no discipline, personal responsibility, or school help at his mother's home. He's doing fairly well at school except that he's not made to do his homework. As long as all the work is done in the classroom, he's fine, but the chaotic conditions at home means he can't work well there. His father went to a parent's evening and most of his teacher's are reluctant to put him up for his A levels because they don't think he can follow through on the work required and this is with his top marks in physics, chemistry, biology.
My husband and I have decided that if my step-son has any chance of getting into University, he's going to have to continue his education while living with us. Unfortunately, we don't live in the same town as his mother and just beyond a sanely commutable distance or he could just continue at the very good comprehensive he's at now that has a 6th form.
Now, here's the questions I have.
- How does one go about getting into a good 6th form college if they didn't go to the lower school? Unfortunately, the schools nearest to us have horrid ofsted reports so we want to send him into Colchester, which is around 10 miles away. While doing research on the subject, I've discovered this is going to be difficult at this stage in his education.
- Where does one get information on this kind of stuff? I've been on the dirct.gov website for hours looking for some help but couldn't find any direct information.
- Does anyone know which is the best school in Colchester for doing science based studies? My husband's whole family is extremely intelligent and all have doctorates in various sciences with one being an actual rocket scientist. So the brains are there (if they haven't been completely diluted with hippy, dippy, do-nothing genes from his mother).
Any help or advice you can give me will be greatly appreciated. My husband travels alot for work so it's hard for him to help out. My step-son has agreed it's probably best for him to live with us while studying for University so at least that's one fight we won't have to have.
Thanks.