Speaking as one who spends a considerable amount of work time sitting on the heads of other MNers showing any signs of precious parenting, may I ask your kind indulgence in performing the same task for me if necessary? Or at least to tweak my response so it does not appear over-precious.
Dd is very much enjoying Yr 7; it's just the maths she's a bit unhappy about. To give a bit of background, she missed
c. 50 % of maths tuition in Yr 5 due to junior school's failure to provide disabled access, but then worked tremendously hard in Yr 6 to catch up and keep her place in top set. She managed it, and she had a wonderfully stimulating teacher and really got to enjoy the subject.
She was very ill during SATS week and did not do as well as predicted (5 c instead of b or a- but she was doing the exam in bed, unable to use her hands or lift her head from the pillow). We didn't have a problem with this result, nor did she; we were proud that she had managed it at all.
The problem is that 5 C was clearly not enough to put her in top set in the new school, so she is in the second from the top. Again, this wouldn't in itself be a problem; I don't care particularly about these matters. The problem is the level in this set.
She is not enjoying it because the work is far too easy. She was really loving it in Yr 6 where they were doing Yr 9 work and forced to think all the time. Now she finishes the half hour tests in 10 minutes, gets full marks and has nothing to do for the rest of the time. I have looked at her work and agree that the level is very babyish compared to last year. (have also checked- in my suspicious way!- that she is actually getting the marks she says she is)
I said to her, in my casual manner: 'ah well, if you're doing that well, they'll move you up, what are you fussing about?'. But she explained that the teacher has really low expectations of this group and that several of her friends are also getting full marks- and then there is a group that are really struggling; the teacher seems to think they are all at this level.
The school is probably the best one around, we are very happy with it, so don't want to blow anything out of proportion. Dd is also a sensible character who is not going to go off the rails, stop working and get pregnant at 14 just because she is occasionally bored. So not a big problem, it just seems a bit of a shame that she put in all that work and even started getting interested, and now it all seems a bit wasted to her.
The first natural point of contact is with the Mentor's day in November. (parents evening not until the end of the year)
What would you do, folks? (I'm asking those of you who are secondary teachers in particular).
Would you take this opportunity to meet the maths teacher and ask- well, for what? How can I put it across tactfully that she is not getting stretched?
I obviously can't tell the school how to organise their sets. Would it be OTT to ask if dd may have some extension work? Or if she might at least carry on working in her book when she has finished her task (dd seems to think this would constitute a major infringement of school rules and that I am totally mad to suggest it). I'd be happy to buy more books etc. but would like to speak to the teacher first.
Another thought, maybe dd should take the intitiative? She can't speak to the teacher before or after class as she (dd) is constrained by her disability (gets there lateish and has to leave very early to catch disabled taxi). Could she pass the teacher a note asking for a word? Dd again seems worried that teacher will think her cheeky and rude.
If you were the teacher, how would you like me to approach this in a positive manner?
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cory · 25/09/2008 14:59
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