Before the start of the school year?
DD will be in year 10 so starting GCSE'S and apparently the school mixes up all the children and do away with the 2 sets. She was in set B and never had any classes with the other half of the year in set A. This is bad news for me as she hadn't had any classes with her so called friends and i would like to keep it that way.
So tempted to email the head of year and ask if my daughter was not placed in classes with certain people.
The reason being is the 'ring leader' is, i have always suspected is a spiteful nasty piece of work and a few days ago DD was acting weird and i came a bit of nastiness from her so called friend when i checked her fb account.
All my daughter did was reply to her post by saying "i live a few houses away from him as well".
So called friend reply was "Post your own status on the matter ".
So i decided to check my daughter's phone and honestly i was horrified. They had a massive fallout over some lad that they both met. But although my daughter did curse alot and told the other girl to F-off and die. This girl went for every one of my daughter's sensitive spots and "If I was truly christian like in the old days you would have been stoned to death".
Then the next day another text where she supposedly comes back creeping and apologizes for everything. And then bit later on in the text's does another subtle hit below the belt.
It starts with her asking twice if my DD has heard from the boy. Then later on says "
Oh and my slightly distanced ness works as he doesn't think of me like a sister yet he might think of you like one"
Then couple of days later again on fb my DD makes a simple mistake with a word (leaves a letter out) and this girl is criticizing it.. Saying i think you were supposed to say this....... as what you wrote is...... which means......
I was honestly tempted to reply as DD and do the same to her as in the same post she also made a few spellings mistakes and always does.
If either my DD or their mutual friends are really happy over something that they achieved this friend has to automatically bring the friend down by saying that it's nothing as she got more.
This is not the first time my daughter has had a fallen out with said friend. They had a very nasty break up in yr 7? Where a third girl believed what the other girl said, started to verbally and physically attack my daughter.
My daughter PE bag went missing and was missing for nearly a whole term when suddenly one day (said friend) said that she spotted it on a table in a science room. It was her bag and was missing one trainer and it had an extra top in it.
It's also the things we overhear her say or the odd things that she says either to myself or my husband. For example my children have parental controls on theirs laptops and have also a time limit. She goes and says in front of me "my parents trust me!"
Is it wrong of me to feel happy that my DD is grounded for the next 2 weeks and is also not allowed any technology (computers, phones,wii and ds) after installing and playing minecraft when it's banned in the house.
So that she doesn't have any contact with the so called friends.
I would like my daughter to find some new friends this year and if she had to share any classes with those "so called friends" they would only make things worse for her.
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Is it worth emailing the head of year?
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colettemum3 · 15/08/2013 02:47
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