This is my first ever post. I am at a loss as to how to help my 17yr old son, who started A levels this year. I've always known how to help before, but can't see how to do it now. He started A levels last Sept, and just has no motivation at all. This is of course effecting his performance in school. Teachers like him, he's not a problem, but he's heading for fails. He knows this. He says he just can't get himself motivated. Not that he does nothing, he really tries (this is what's heartbreaking). He'll sit there with his books all round him, surface working for ages, but because he's not engaged, nothing's really changing - a levels are about that deeper engagement. He says he's bored. He's happy in other areas of life (family, friends, girlfriend, sport). Have tried talking to him about focusing on goals - short term, longer term, the lot. he doesn't want to walk away - he knows that would be the wrong choice. Doesn't want to change subjects - says he's made the right choices and he'd be the same whatever. Lots of negative thinking going on, and I just don't know what to do to help. Any advice out there from people who have been there?
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How to help my bored, demotivated son with A levels?
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summer1964 · 19/01/2013 08:49
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