MagicMN Your DS might struggle to gain admission to Waldegrave I have lived in Bromley and Beckenham, and still have friends there, but have steadily moved west drawn mainly by the benefit of river and parks, twee high streets with plenty of period housing. We didn't have children when we moved here though, it might have been a different decision.
House prices are cheaper in Bromley and Beckenham. You get substantially more for your money. You also have access to a number of selective state schools. Friends DCs typically sat Orpington , Sidcup schools and Eltham Schools?? and it was not as with Tiffin a case of only genius's need apply, nor was there the extensive tutoring culture? I am not sure about non selectives or Catholic Schools, it is not first hand experience. However I do not get the impression it is quite such a trauma as it can be over here.
The subject of secondary education over here is a subject of much parental angst, there has been a long running debate about schools on here New Schools for Richmond 4 is a continuation of the 3000 posts on 1,2 and 3! There is a huge culture of tutoring for private schools and the state Grammar School in Kingston, Tiffin Boys, which has a huge number of applicants who have to get a stratospheric mark to get a place. Some of the comps here are outstanding and all are improving. For boys Twickenham is served by Orleans Park and Teddington by Teddington School in the former category, both are heavily over subscribed. Twickenham Academy is improving and expected to be oversubscribed in the next couple of years. Many parents in Twickenham are very concerned about a future shortage of state school places because the good primary schools in the area have attracted ever more parents (with a consequent effect on house prices and availability) primary schools have added ever more classes and there are many more pupils in primaries than places in secondary's. A Judicial review just failed to challenge the Councils decision to give a site in Central Twickenham for an exclusive Catholic School St Richard Reynolds. It will start out sharing the site, in pretty crummy accommodation, with the adult education college, pending extensive building work , and Catholic parents expect that initially it will fill up mainly with Catholic children not happy with their options south of the borough whilst most Catholics in Catholic Primary Schools in the Borough will continue to do all they need (quite a commitment) to gain places at established out of borough schools for boys like Oratory and Gunnersbury, a difficutish journey but one many feel justified by their reputations. Turing House School is a parent led Free School Proposal which originally specified the Clifden Road site but is now hoping for a site in Teddington, but with a Twickenham catchment. It was refused for funding to open in 2013 but has high hopes for 2014.
Many of the parents that I have known as a result of my DDs have moved away because of the secondary school situation, some of them to Kent.................