DD was always a very happy go lucky prob quite popular girl.
something happened with a boy just under a year ago and she was terrorised by a gang of girls who set on her.
Ever since then she has become withdrawn and jumpy.
She is obv. Nervous when people come around the corner or into a room unexpectantly and she has completely lost her confidence.
She has isolated herself from the group of girls she always used to hang about with because she feels they let her down as no one was there for her when it happened . They just stood and watched .
Everything is ok on the outside but she prob hasn't helped herself I know because she says she can't pretend to like and trust the people who watched her get hurt and did nothing . She feels liken outsider and dreads break time .
She is prob above average academiaclly and is at he top of the top set is every subject. She is trying to focus on her school work to get her through.
I've never seen her so sad and I know she cries herself to sleep at night .
I've offered to do what ever she wants me to support her.
I don't really think moving would benefit her much because of the academic impact at this stage of her gcses. ????
I've said I'm happy to home school her and would find the support we needed if I have to.
DD has counted she has only 27 weeks and wants to stick it out because she can then choose another school for 6th form nearer to home and she desperately wants to be an obstetrician so knows she needs the grades. TBH I think shed get the grades now tho as long as she continued to work hard.
My heart just breaks tho when I see her because she looks so so unhappy. She has lovely friends outside school and a great family who she loves very much.
To be blunt i don't want her to go do something silly as happens too many times to teenagers under pressure ?????
I would very much welcome any thoughts.
She doesn't want me to speak to the school btw as they will just talk to the girls and it not help she says in the long run. . . Although she does have a very nice tutor who was most supportive when dd was attacked x
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Wwyd pls . .DD is very unhappy in year 11 at school and its awful seeing her so sad
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Timetochange70 · 24/09/2011 00:59
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