My DS who is in Year 7 started at an inner city state secondary school six weeks ago. Previous to this my DS had been attending private school since the age of 7. There were many issues why he had to leave his private secondary school, he had an awful experience there, it was a very new school with inly 50 other children and the head took an instant dislike to my child and felt her school was not right for him. DS is quite chatty and loud character.
I evenuallly ended up changing DS school but from the onset my DS was picked on by other children being called posh, not knowing the right slang words, talking differently etc etc. Witihn the first week he was being physical assaulted by the other children, spat on, kicked, singled out, punched, constant name calling etc etc.
To be fair to the school they have always taken every incident very seriously
investigating and reprimanding the children concerned. Had a big meeting before the half term with the head of year and thought that things were finally sorted out.
Unfortunately, on retunring from the break my DS was threatened by another Year 7 child with a home made weapon. I informed the school, the child concerned was given an internal exclusion. My DS is left traumatised and is in pieces. I have also found out 2 days ago that in order to cope with the constant bullying my DS has resorted to inhaling areosol gases. My child has never had an issue with substance misuse before when I questioned him and aked why and how he knew what to do he iinforemd him that one of the children who had been bullying him had told him what to do!!!!!
Sorry for going on and on i'm at my wits end and just needed to let it all out.
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asianbabe · 11/06/2011 09:21
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