Hi, my 12 yr old DS is in yr 7.
Throughout primary school he lagged a little behind most of his classmates in developing his academic skills, however, he was articulate and sociable so we weren't too worried. In year 5 the school decided to give him an individual development plan which offered him some limited one to one support, particularly with his English.
This support (which we worked alongside) continued through yr 6 and he achieved grade 4 in all of his SAT tests.
His transition to high school went well and he loves it. He is, however, very focused on making new friends, developing his hobbies and generally having a great time!!
I received a letter today from the school informing me that they were putting him on the special need register at the school action plan level, (at a recent parents evening I was informed that he was doing well and there were no concerns!!).
My worries are these:
I know he lacks confidence in his academic skills, he says that he can't do things and is reluctant to even try.
He is very easily distracted...although this is only with school work...when he is making a film for the computer is completely focused.
He is very sensitive about his ability...when we approach offerring support he usually ends up in tears.
So I wondered if any other parents knew of any online or written academic support material that they could recommend that would grab the interest of a totally uninterested 12 yr old boy!....or....something that could help myself and my husband communicate with him in a more positive way about studying.
Thanks
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Sweetlottie · 09/06/2011 12:21
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