Dd1 has a girl in her class who is at best a bit of an attention seeker, at worst a bully but she pretends to be dd1's friend and acts innocent when dd1 tells her not to do things or that she has upset her, dd1 has now told her in no uncertain terms to leave her alone, she does not want to be friends with this girl as she is also horrible to dd1's best friend. All par for the course up to now I would guess? I know girls do fall out quite a bit and it's to be expected right?
A few weeks ago the girl sprayed perfume in my dd1's eye and claimed it was by accident and she had actually meant it for someone else (makes it no better in my book as she was trying to hurt someone by doing that) I was really upset for dd1 and told her to tell a teacher but she only told student services who didn't do anything about it apart from help dd to wash her eye. So when I went to parents evening I mentioned it to the form tutor as I was still not happy about it and wanted to warn him to keep an ear out for any more trouble from this girl.
The teacher spoke to the girl and informed her parents about her behaviour and dd1 is not the only girl to be complaining about the girl
Now this girl has been horrible to dd on msn, calling her a liar and having a go at her for telling a teacher about the perfume. So I explained dd would like her to leave her alone, I understand for whatever reason she dislikes my dd1 and that's ok, we can't all like everyone all the time but that leaving her alone and keeping out of her way would be better than being horrible to her. The girl thought I was dd1 and wouldn't believe I was dd1's mum, when she realised it was me she went offline and I have blocked her so dd1 doesn't have to put up with any more abuse.
I don't want to kick up a huge fuss unless there is no other option, I have tried to keep it reasonable and low key but tbh I am fed up now, my dd1 goes to school to learn and I am not happy with the situation.
WWYD? What can I do? I don't want to make it worse for dd1 but this girl is not listening to dd1 asking her to keep away from her, she follows her around at school, calls her ugly and a liar etc.
Driving dd home last week I saw this girl kicking puddles of water over the girls she was walking with and laughing at them, they didn't seem to mind so I didn't interfer but it showed me that she doesn't have any respect even for the friends she currently has.
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LoveMyGirls · 26/01/2011 20:26
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